Currently, there is an ongoing debate in the Philippines, specially Cebu, about the decency of Lingam Massage. For the benefit of others,
Lingam is the Sanskrit word for the male sexual organ and is loosely translated as “Wand of Light.” In Tantra or Sacred Sexuality, the Lingam is respectfully viewed and honored, as a “Wand of Light” that channels creative energy and pleasure. So the goal of Lingam massage is to massage the Lingam, also including testicles, perineum and Sacred Spot (prostate) externally, allowing the man to surrender to a form of pleasure he may not be accustomed to. From this perspective both receiver and giver relax into the massage.
From those first paragraphs, have you in mind decency about Lingam or is it the other way around? If you ask me, there is something decent and indecent about the massage. Spa operators in Cebu has claimed that the massage is indeed indecent and may in turn damage Cebu’s Spa industry.
The OPERATORS of a spa who claim to be the first one to offer authentic Lingam massage in Cebu said the massage is not indecent. They have stated that they have invested too much and have had their therapist sent to Malaysia just to learn the massage. They also claimed that eight of their twelve therapists are licensed and trained Lingam therapists.
With how the operators have invested in Lingam Massage, does that prove that indeed Lingam Massage is decent? How about the other small and underground massage parlors with untrained therapist giving the same massage, is there any guarantee that everything they do conform to society’s perception to decency?
In my own opinion, again there is something decent and indecent about the massage. Having someone touch and stroke my Wand of Light, that alone is indecent. People don’t care whether you are trained and an expert in doing the massage, once you touch their Wand of Light, expect the worst. Men are animals. The decency lies on how and what I would thinking while somebody is playing with my Wand of Light. LOL. ^_^
I’d have to try Lingam massage for the sake of decency! Who is with me on this! Kidding. What do you think?
You can read the whole article of the local news about Lingam here.